Seriously…WHAT
IS WRONG with these people these days…I got another proposal…and this one was
like an arranged marriage proposal…the guy is a doctor...his parents are looking for someone with a job within the
same caste, blabla…and as I happened to qualify…they sent a proposal to my
parents. My mum is all thrilled; she is
so excited as if SHE is getting married…they are nearly FORCING ME to say yes…I
SAY FUCK THEM…
I have plans for my future and I am not even remotely ready to be
married… then I hear these arguments from (my mum, dad, uncle, aunty…LOTS of
family members);
- Why are you waiting?
- You can continue to study after marriage?
- You are missing a great opportunity!
- You are going to be an old single lonely woman!
- If you marry him you will not have to work…he got enough money to keep you happy!
- He is a good boy!
- He is handsome!
- You think you will get a proposal like that after you accomplish whatever you’ve currently planned?
- Do you have anyone else in your life?
- You think your boyfriend (if ever you have one) can give you all these things?
MAN
this is going on since yesterday…My issue is not that I have a boyfriend… its
just bizarre to end up in an arranged marriage..+ the guy is 28 years old…MAN
YOU ARE 28 YEARS OLD AND YOU DID NOT FIND A GIRLFRIEND BY YOURSELF YET?? Seriously
what is wrong with this guy? Or he may be mommy’s son that he listens to all
the orders she gives to him…
plus I heard he is a very religious guy…well sorry
BUT I AM NOT…I mean I am not the devil also, I go to pray from time to time and
when there are religious functions I attend (IF IT IS IMPORTANT TO ME) but that’s
it…nothing more…
I
was so down that I smoked 3 cigarettes early morning, I had to cancel my tattoo
and piercing appointment because some shit head in my family is spying on me to
see if I am dating someone, and he is probably going to follow me…I ate solid
today out of depression (I am an emotional eater pfft).
Whatever
happens I am going to say NO…I simply cannot do this.. plus I am going to apply
for immigration this November (I want to run away and GET A LIFE, a REAL
one). I hope everything goes well and
fast for immigration…I am waiting till November because I need more points in
terms of experience ( 2 years on 1st November), I need to score
maximum in language (French and English) and I need to save money…currently all
my money is going to pay for my IT course and after that (September) I can
start saving for immigration…Oh my life is hell.
Enough
of me.. so how you’ve been?
lol ^^ this post is making me lough so much.. Being Persian I can ttly relate to this.. I didn't get married before I was 28 and you can imagine the horror my family back in Iran thought it was.. "oh you will never get married" - "when are you gonna find someone" ect ect - and the God knows how many times they wanted me to date some random dude.. It's just so wrong..
ReplyDeleteYou stay strong missy and your family just has to deal.. Its your life and you can do what ever you want.. ^^
lol thnx a lot for your support
DeleteWow just wow! You do what you want and be happy! I love how you wont let anyone bring you down!
ReplyDeleteI love your blog! I was 162lbs too not so long back :) iv got down to 149lbs now still 49lbs to go!
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Stay Strong x